童剛滿 7 個月，開始有點皮。例如：餵她吃飯時突然哭鬧起來、坐電車時坐在我腿上扶著她時會把我的手撥開、清理鼻孔時不停推開我的手，把頭擰開、擦嘴時又是把我的手撥開，又是把頭擰開... 一句總結：不聽話。
Complete devil mom rules
It's easy to give birth to a child, but it's not easy to raise a child. Just finished reading Sansan's blog, she posted a 'Complete devil mom rule' suggested from a friend of her's. One of my the rules is my favorite: To stay completely elegant. However, this is not applicable for me at this point... Noémie is the one who could stay completely elegant because I am always the one who carried around her food and water... At this moment, I can only be complete calm.
Noémie just turned 7 months old, she started to know when to reject and when to misbehave. For example, she will suddenly cry while I was feeding her; she will push my hands away when I am only trying to hold her in the tram; she will push away my hands (again) and turned away her head while I try to pick her nose; wiping her mouth after eating is another battle... All I can say is she is not a nice girl at this pont!
Mama knew that kids are born to be misbehave and to continuously test the parent's limits. And it's very difficult to be able to stay calm, and I know that the best way is to talk to her calmly. By this way, she can have a chance to think what have she done wrong and what should she do or shouldn't do next time. But I really can't stay calm for every minute, the only way I have is to hand her over for papa. Papa is a super patient person, plus, he's not facing her bad behavior as frequent as I do, so he must have a bigger tolerance. Good! From now on, I don't mind to let him pick her nose!
Sansan said she's a black sheep, and also a very carefree mom, so she's quite relax with her daughter (of course not letting her do whatever she wants). And I also told her that I am a black fish, so Noémie will have a very good chance to turn black... Anyway, black is my favorite!
I just want to say that I have once been a teenager, all I want to do is to be absolutely open. It's best that we could sit together for a drink and a cigarette, I hope we can treat each other as how we treat our friends, I hope it will make our lives easier...