Thursday, November 27, 2008

11月14日 ﹣童十個月 ﹣孩子你慢慢來

這個月有一半時間在香港過!

學會了什麼叫做熱,什麼叫做人山人海!

什麼叫做九記牛腩、山竹牛肉、糯米雞、叉燒包、碗仔翅與馬拉糕等!

回來瑞士後便很想爬, 可總有一隻腳卡住,爬不了!連試了很多天,今天終於大膽了,在滿十個月前的兩天學會了如何用手踏步,便半坐的開始爬了,還滿快的呢!

爬後便要企,企了多天悶了又想學行路... 站著也搖搖搖像布甸,還未穩,便要放開手自己站,當然會跌倒。還想要行,根本就支撐不了!所以媽媽告訴你不可以未學爬,先學企,也不可以未學企,先學行!有些事情是要慢慢來,好好學。好好享受這個沒有記憶的幼兒期,也好好享受從遊玩中跌倒,學習!

再看罷龍應台的孩子,你慢慢來,這已是我第三次看這書,每次看都有不同的感受。第一次看是在完全還沒有想要養孩子的時候,第二次看是在懷孕時,好想好想能像黑洞般把所有與養小孩有關的都收到肚裏。第三次看是現在,童在我身邊,再看仍是會感動!當然我也愛看龍應台的其他著作,也會有不同的感動。

書裏有一張龍應台和安安在浦公英田裏玩的照片,下寫著“浦公英年年都有,孩子這麼幼小,卻只有一次!”

是啊!

孩子,你慢慢來。別長太快,好讓媽媽好好親親抱抱你!

November 14 - Noémie turned 10 month old - Kid, take it slow!

We spent half of her time in HK this month!

She learns what is Hot, and what is people mountain people sea, this is a HK saying of crowded!

And learns what is typical HK dim sum!

She started to want to crawl when we are back, but there's always one leg got stuck and can't proceed. She tries and tries, finally on 2 days before she turns 10 month, she made it, now she's half crawling!

After accomplishing this, she wants to stand, and then walk... of course she's still not good on standing and how can she walk? Mama kept telling her that she shouldn't skip step, she has to learn the basic well before proceeding to the next stage. She should be enjoying this baby time and not rush into the toddler stage!

Here's a book written Prof. Lung Ying Tai - Kid, take it slow. this is my third copy, every time I read it, I have different feelings. The first time I read, I was still single. The second was when I was pregnant, the time when you want to receive all informations about raising kids like a black hole. The third time is now, with Noémie besides me, tears still running down when I read it!

There's a picture of Lung playing with Andreas in the daffodil field and written: "There's daffodil every year, but kids only has one time being so young!"

How true it is!

Take it slow, Kid! Don't grow so fast, mama wants to hug, kiss and play silly games with you!

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